normanee ([info]normanee) wrote,
@ 2008-02-14 22:00:00
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Happy Valentines Day!

This is my Valentine to William



I also made him Ghirardelli chocolate truffles with pecan coating.

He got me this : (Super yummy!)



I am sad to see so many people saying "Don't call it Valentine's Day, call it Single's Awareness day" Even if you are single you should not be sad about it. My friend Ashley put it eloquently "I have 364 others days of the year to be depressed about being single"

I know it is a commercial holiday, of course it is! What holiday isn't?!?! Enjoy Valentines day for love and if not love for discount chocolate the day after.

I remember reading this version of the story and always liking this explanation:

"Valentine [was]a priest who refused an unattested law attributed to Roman Emperor Claudius II, allegedly ordering that young men remain single. The Emperor supposedly did this to grow his army, believing that married men did not make for good soldiers. The priest Valentine, however, secretly performed marriage ceremonies for young men. When Claudius found out about this, he had Valentine arrested and thrown in jail. In an embellishment to The Golden Legend, on the evening before Valentine was to be executed, he wrote the first "valentine" himself, addressed to a young girl variously identified as his beloved, as the jailer's daughter whom he had befriended and healed, or both. It was a note that read "From your Valentine."

In another apparently modern embellishment, while Valentine was imprisoned, people would leave him little notes, folded up and hidden in cracks in the rocks around his cell. He would find them and offer prayers for them." From wikipedia

I also remember they would bring him flower petals and chocolates to keep his spirits up.

Either way try to think Valentines day as a good day, or at least not a bad one.



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[info]darlingfindjoy
2008-02-15 03:53 am UTC (link)
Seriously. Brandon sent me flowers today, and you would not believe the glares I got from people because of them. I listened to more rawr than love today. It's really rather sad. I'm glad you quoted the line of a commercial holiday because I heard that in the grumbling too.

I hope you and WIlliam [and Ashley] had an amazing Valentine's day!

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[info]normanee
2008-02-15 03:59 am UTC (link)
I think we all did. William and I ordered in and Ashley went out with some of her gal pals. My truffles turned out pretty well if I do say so myself. ^^ Valentines day rocks!

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[info]sneezypb
2008-02-15 04:12 am UTC (link)
How about... Dinner Reservations Day? I don't cook. So its a pain that the places I normally go require a reservation, long wait, or staying home. :( Fortunately, I found one of them over an hour early and didn't have so long of a wait.

I think its more the prominence. When most people are in public celebrating the fact they are with someone and you are the only one in public who isn't.... It puts you out of place.... Or maybe it is that it puts you in your place.

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[info]sneezypb
2008-02-15 04:41 am UTC (link)
Eight million Americans admit they send themselves Valentine's Day gifts -- they may feel lonely and unloved but at least they will get something nice.
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Saudi Arabia has banned red roses ahead of Valentine's Day, forcing couples in the conservative Muslim nation to think of new ways to show their love.
...
But what if the diamonds financed wars, the cocoa beans were harvested by children and the roses grown in a pesticide mist?
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080214/od_uk_nm/oukoe_uk_valentines

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[info]normanee
2008-02-15 02:50 pm UTC (link)
So cook! That one day. Or buy a frozen dinner and cook it in the oven! Or order in. Why take the fun out of it by giving it a negative name?

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[info]sneezypb
2008-02-15 03:20 pm UTC (link)
What fun? I've never had any fun in association with the day.

Even going back to elementary school, I got picked on for not giving enough or getting enough.

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[info]mangaka_serena
2008-02-15 05:41 am UTC (link)
i see valentine's as a day of hope and confessing one's feeling for people who are single ^-^ myself included....

i even played cupid for some of my friends today

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